Sexual Safety

Dating Abroad

Research the laws and cultural norms in your host country surrounding relationships, dating, and public displays of affection, among both same-sex and opposite-sex couples. Romantic relations are often governed by different social rules than what you are used to in the U.S. For example, dating in groups is much more common in some cultures than individual dating, which is reserved for serious, long-term relationships. Sex may or may not be a common component of dating in your host country.

Like in the U.S., acceptance of interracial couples varies by region; some places are very accepting, while in others interracial dating is not accepted. A little research in advance will give you a general sense of dating practices in your host country, and may help offset possible misunderstandings and uncomfortable situations. To avoid surprises and misunderstandings, it is a good idea to find out in advance what the “rules” are for dating and hanging out in the country where you will be studying.

Sexual Assault & Harassment

What is Sexual Harassment?

Sexual harassment is unacceptable to many Americans.  However, you should be aware that the definition of what constitutes sexual harassment in your host country may be quite different from your own or Penn State’s. Many other cultures are permissive of behavior that would be considered harassment here in the U.S.  If at any time during your program you feel sexually harassed by a member of faculty or staff at your host institution, or by a fellow student, you should let your on-site coordinator know about the harassment as soon as possible so that appropriate actions can be taken on-site. Penn State students who perpetrate sexual harassment while abroad may be subject to disciplinary action upon their return.

It is easy to misunderstand social and personal interactions and behavior while abroad, which could cause you to interpret sexual harassment as "normal" behavior and, conversely, normal behavior as harassment. It will be helpful to learn about the cultural norms of your host country before going abroad. If you experience behavior that you consider sexual harassment, or any behavior that makes you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, talk to an on-site adviser first, either through your program provider or host institution. The on-site advisers can help you make sense of the situation and advise you on how to proceed and how to respond if future problems arise.

Students who do experience sexual harassment abroad should consider filing a report with the Penn State Title IX officer.  And, if incidents of harassment are reported to program coordinators, these leaders may be required to report the harassment to Penn State as a mandatory reporter. 

If You or Someone You Know Has Been Sexually Assaulted While Abroad

  • If possible, and the victim is comfortable, report the assault to the local program coordinator or faculty leader.
  • The program coordinator and/or faculty leader are considered mandatory reporters under the Title IX law and can help the student (verify Penn State term) explore options for medical assistance and reporting the assault to local authorities.
  • You and/or the victim should also contact the Penn State University Police Services (+001.814.863.1111).
  • Penn State police will notify the on-call emergency Education Abroad staff to assist you or the victim, any time, day or night.

More information on your rights and responsibilities under Title IX.

Tips to Help You Stay Safe Abroad

Sexual violence of any kind, including harassment, sexual assault and rape, is never the victim's fault. With that in mind, there are a number of ways to reduce the risk of sexual harassment and/or assault while abroad:

  • Be cautious in divulging your address and personal information to new acquaintances and friends.
  • Always be aware of your surroundings, and trust your instincts if you feel unsafe.
  • Ask locals about places to avoid and other tips to stay safe.
  • Always lock your doors and don't tell strangers if you will be alone.
  • Avoid dark streets and alleys.
  • Never go out alone, especially at night. Always share a cab when possible.
  • If you decide to consume alcohol while abroad, know your limits and stay in control of your actions. Always go out with friends that you trust and are responsible.
  • Always let someone know (a friend, host family, etc.) where you are going and when you expect to return.
  • Women: when using public transportation you should sit next to other women, when possible.
  • Women: if you find yourself in an area and don't see any local women around, you should leave immediately. That is a strong indication that the area is not safe.

Gender and Sexual Health Resources